How to Pick Flowers for Someone You Don’t Really Know (Yet)

You’ve got a new coworker, a neighbor you want to thank, or maybe a potential someone you’re hoping to impress. You want to send flowers but you barely know their taste. Roses feel too intense, lilies feel too safe, and you start spiraling somewhere between “cute” and “what if this is weird?”

Relax. Flowers don’t have to be a personality test. They just need to feel thoughtful and intentional. Here’s how to make the right call, even when you’re still figuring the person out.

Start with Mood, Not Meaning

Forget what every flower “means” for a moment. You’re not decoding hidden messages; you’re setting a tone.

• Cheerful and bright: Go with sunflowers, gerberas, or tulips. They read as friendly and confident, never too serious.

• Soft and elegant: Try lisianthus, ranunculus, or blush-toned roses. They say you have taste without being dramatic about it.

• Fresh and relaxed: Think wildflower-style bouquets with greenery and texture. They’re charming in that I didn’t overthink this but I clearly have style way.

At Suncrest Flowers, we design arrangements that balance personality and polish. Our florists know how to make flowers feel natural, never forced.

Play It Safe, But Not Boring

When in doubt, stay neutral with color. Whites, greens, and soft pinks are universally loved and work for every situation; whether it’s a new friendship, a thank-you gift, or something that could turn into a date later.

The trick is to keep the bouquet fresh, seasonal, and full of texture. A mix of blooms and greenery feels effortless while still saying, “I care enough to get this right.”

Add a Personal Touch (Without Overdoing It)

If you know one small detail about them (like their favorite coffee spot or the fact that they love plants) let that guide your choice. You can always pick up one of our Grab-and-Go bouquets at Loki Coffee in Salt Lake City for an easy gesture that feels personal and modern.

It’s a casual way to say “thinking of you” without it being a full-on declaration.

When in Doubt, Ask Your Florist

That’s what we’re here for. Tell us who it’s for, what the occasion is, and what vibe you’re going for. We’ll guide you to something that hits just the right note. Whether it’s charming, thoughtful, or quietly flirty, we’ll help you find the bouquet that speaks volumes without saying too much.